Choose Love

Are you interested in having a better experience? Choose love! It's really that easy, but you have to use discernment. Now is the time to start changing how you deal with those around you because if you're waiting for everyone else to change, you'll be waiting a long time. When you change how you react, you'll find your experience changes as well.

Your thoughts

One of the greatest myths out there is that you are the source of all those thoughts in your head. We are in a quantum "soup" and thought-forms are floating around everywhere. If you go to the mall, you may find you're more anxious or your mood might change. It's because you're being affected my more people and energies. That's why you feel more relaxed in forest (for-rest) -- trees are high-vibration.

I was driving home recently and a thought about money and trusting someone (or rather a lack of trust) came into my head. I revoked that thought and imagined a great future where we were past the need to have money. The thought dissipated.

I also had this song "Abide by me" in my head. I think it's religious song and believe it was the dark trying to re-contract with me. I revoked the song and substituted one of my own songs. "Forgiveness". It was still there so, I put on an instrumental track from Spotify and it disappeared.

Don't give energy to lower vibrations. If you choose to be in love and peace, then be in love and peace. No one will do it for you.

Perception

Multiple people in the same room can have different experiences based on how their perception. When you are in the victim mindset, you'll blame everyone else for your situation. When you're in the rescuer mindset, you'll try to defend everyone or have them think like you. Let the need to control or judge others go and be at peace with yourself. If I'm talking to someone and they say, "It'll never change..." I reply with something enlightening to show them it's not as bad as they think.

Don't let others change your vibration. You're working to increase your vibration, so don't let others take you down into a contracted state like they're in. Like the Matrix "Mr. Smith", people might be following what's in their head and just blurt out things they may usually not say -- just to try and get you to lower your vibration. Don't give them energy by responding in the same low-vibration state. You could say "Thank you, have a nice day."

You are in the Controller's Seat

Think of life as you are in the controller's seat and what you say goes. Take charge. We're back to manifestation. If you think "It'll never change" it won't. I recommend changing your way of thinking and choose love ❤. You can have a different experience from a family member or your neighbour, by sending out a vibration of love. See the Vibration Chart below. Those in a contracted state, following others, will be in the vibrations of desire, fear, grief, apathy, guilt and shame. If you're feeling any of those, forgive the past and move forward in love. See my Purging page. When you are in love, joy and peace, you'll draw better experiences to you making it even easier to be in love, joy and peace.

Guide: Now can we go bowling?
Jason: I laugh

You are not alone. If you need help, just ask. If you need some guidance, meditate and feel your heart. I asked my spirit guides to "show me something on my path" and it worked. I finished this article at 11:11am. If you're seeing angel-numbers -- it's not a coincidence. Nothing you've experienced is a coincidence -- you've had that experience for a reason. Grow from the negative experiences and you'll stop having them.

Forgive the past and move forward in love. It's fun. (like bowling ;)