Frequency is everything
Your frequency directly affects your experience. When one is in fear, you'll attract more reasons to stay in fear in your experience. When one is in their heart space, sending out love, you'll attract more reasons to send out love in your experience.
Lets take an example: The experience of another, even someone beside you, has no affect on the experience you can have. If you hold a higher vibration, you'll have a better experience. It's a falicy to see something on TV and think that it has anything to do with you. If you believe the TVs message and put emotion to it, you'll manifest it in your experience.
I have another example regarding spontaneous healing. Sickness is of a low vibration. As one raises their vibration by "forgiving the past and moving forward in love," the sickness will leave. Sickness is low energy. Love is high energy.
Furthermore, as the frequency of humanity increases, it won't be possible for the lower-vibration experiences to happen. That is the ascension.
Start your ascension now - forgive the past and move forward in love.
It works.