Saved a wasp
I posed a question to this individual, "Is the fly, on my finger, conscious?" He answered, "No."
In another conversation, a wasp was exploring a partially filled wine glass and fell in. It started to flail. I immediately, tore a piece of napkin off, put it beside the wasp and it crawled up the napkin onto my finger and it flew away.
No one else moved.
I know both the fly and wasp are conscious, so I moved to help the wasp when it required my assistance.
I figured out a topic to connect on, that's not in a book - heart space.